Aging Senior Services

HAVE YOU EVER SERVED IN THE MILITARY?

One question can make a big difference…

PROVIDE QUALITY SERVICE TO AGING VETERANS AND THEIR FAMILIES BY:

  • Helping older veterans feel understood and respected for their military service.
  • Making effective referrals to military-veteran-specific programs and resources.
  • Helping military widows access survivor benefits.

WHY ASK THE QUESTION?

Over 48% of our NH veterans are over age 65.  As a provider of services to older adults, you will encounter veterans and spouses/widows of veterans.  Whether you are providing health care, financial counseling, caregiver services, residential care, or any other service for seniors, it is important to identify veterans and their family members.  One question can and will make a big difference!

At the point of intake,

ASK THE QUESTION:

“Have you or a family member ever served in the military?”

WHEN THE ANSWER IS “YES,” you may consider thanking them for their service. You may also then be able to find out more about your client’s military history that will help you to provide the best possible services and referrals.  Asking further questions will also help you to:

  • Build rapport and demonstrate interest and cultural competency
  • Link to any needed military/veteran resources and referrals, including both VA and non-VA programs
  • Identify any mental health and/or physical and medical issues that need to be  considered
  • Identify potential sources of income and assess financial stability
  • Explore areas of functioning in need of support, as well as existing supports, services, and resources
  • Address perceived barriers to seeking support and services

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Following are some questions that could be asked in the context of gathering information for more effective referrals and services.  Pay attention to non-verbal cues, and show respect, curiosity, and empathy.  Also be aware that responsiveness and effective follow-up are critical to building trust and rapport.

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When did you/your family member serve? What service era? Which Branch?

  • Build rapport and demonstrate interest and cultural competency
  • Link to any needed military/veteran resources and referrals, including both VA and non-VA programs

What was your/your family member’s job while serving?

  • Link to any needed military/veteran resources and referrals, including both VA and non-VA programs
  • Identify any mental health and/or physical and medical issues that need to be considered

In what ways may the services that you’re here for be connected to your/your family member’s military service?

  • Link to any needed military/veteran resources and referrals, including both VA and non-VA programs
  • Identify any mental health and/or physical and medical issues that need to be  considered
  • Identify potential sources of income and assess financial stability
  • Explore areas of functioning in need of support, as well as existing supports, services, and resources

Did you/your family member experience deployment?

  • Link to any needed military/veteran resources and referrals, including both VA and non-VA programs

What is your/your family member’s discharge type/status?

  • Link to any needed military/veteran resources and referrals, including both VA and non-VA programs

Are you/your family member enrolled at or connected to the VA or other veteran resources or organizations for services and support?

  • Link to any needed military/veteran resources and referrals, including both VA and non-VA programs
  • Identify potential sources of income and assess financial stability
  • Explore areas of functioning in need of support, as well as existing supports, services, and resources

Have you/your family member ever used the VA for health care?

  • Link to any needed military/veteran resources and referrals, including both VA and non-VA programs
  • Explore areas of functioning in need of support, as well as existing supports, services, and resources

Do you/your family member have a service-connected disability or condition?

  • Link to any needed military/veteran resources and referrals, including both VA and non-VA programs
  • Identify any mental health and/or physical and medical issues that need to be  considered
  • Identify potential sources of income and assess financial stability
  • Explore areas of functioning in need of support, as well as existing supports, services, and resources

What types of support are needed but not yet met?

  • Explore areas of functioning in need of support, as well as existing supports, services, and resources

What reservations did you/your family member have about coming in to seek assistance? Is there anything that might be a barrier to further seeking assistance?

  • Address perceived barriers to seeking support and services

Select your profession to see how:

By asking “Have you or a family member ever served in the military?” senior services professionals can:

  1. Help older veterans feel understood and respected for their military service
  2. Make effective referrals to Veteran-specific programs and resources
  3. Help military widows access survivor benefits
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By asking “Have you or a family member ever served in the military?” children’s services professionals can:

  1. Help a student thrive when a parent is deployed
  2. Support families facing deployment and reintegration
  3. Improve peer sensitivity to military children
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By asking “Have you or a family member ever served in the military?” employment and vocational services professionals can:

  1. Identify a warrior’s transferable skills
  2. Connect Veterans to military-friendly employers
  3. Help a returning Service Member access veteran job training programs
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By asking “Have you or a family member ever served in the military?” faith-based professionals can:

  1. Identify families in need of extra help during deployment
  2. Motivate communities to come together on behalf of those who serve
  3. Connect military families to the supports and services they need
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By asking “Have you or a family member ever served in the military?” healthcare and medical professionals can:

  1. Build critical rapport with a reluctant patient
  2. Understand the relationship between military experiences and medical symptoms
  3. Provide effective referrals and resources
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By asking “Have you or a family member ever served in the military?” higher education professionals can:

  1. Help a warrior acclimate to a civilian learning environment
  2. Improve peer sensitivity to veteran classmates
  3. Effectively accommodate service-connected disabilities
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By asking “Have you or a family member ever served in the military?” housing services professionals can:

  1. Identify families that qualify for Veteran-specific housing programs
  2. Address service-related barriers to stable housing
  3. Provide effective referrals and resources
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By asking “Have you or a family member ever served in the military?” law enforcement professionals can:

  1. Keep veterans and their families safe
  2. Build trust and rapport in difficult situations
  3. Partner with providers who help Veterans in crisis
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By asking “Have you or a family member ever served in the military?” legal services professionals can:

  1. Support justice-involved veterans
  2. Identify legal challenges related to military service
  3. Link to effective resources
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By asking “Have you or a family member ever served in the military?” mental health professionals can:

  1. Build critical rapport with a reluctant client
  2. Understand the impact of military stressors on mental health and substance use
  3. Help a family understand the emotional effects of deployment on the whole family
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By asking “Have you or a family member ever served in the military?” social services professionals can:

  1. Engage reluctant Veteran clients
  2. Meet a military family’s unique needs
  3. Coordinate services between veteran and civilian providers
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By asking “Have you or a family member ever served in the military?” women’s services professionals can:

  1. Partner with veteran service providers in crisis situations
  2. Identify deployment-related triggers and risk factors
  3. Identify individuals affected by Military Sexual Trauma (MST)
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